The first impression is the most important. Therefore, when preparing and visiting, it is necessary to pay attention to various trifles.
The first date, like a jump into the unknown. The sensations are frightening, but pleasant. What kind of a person is your date? Will he be the only one for you? Or vice versa, after talking, you are disappointed. It is on these moments that whether you will be a couple depends. In order to avoid making a mistake, pay attention to the following things.
The place where you should meet is a very important detail. It is the choice of the place that shows the attitude of the man. Whether you meet in a cafe, or in a fancy restaurant, depends on the seriousness of the man's intent. Did he just invite me to walk in the park? It means signs of attention, most likely friendly, not hinting at the further development of relations. The restaurant is a different matter. The man has already chosen you and wants to impress. Cheap cafes and nightclubs are unsuitable places for first visits. If a man invites you there, he most likely needs a partner for the night, not more.
Pay attention to the appearance of the date. If a man wants you to like him, he will be dressed accordingly. A man who does not need serious relations, will come on a date in a non-serious clothes. But, more cautiously, there are narcissistic men who dress to admire themselves. This is noticeable at once. During the date, he will show his things to you, their quality and price. Why do you need such a partner? He will always be in his own first place to himself.
All men like to show their generosity. Especially at the first meetings. A tall rich man who does not count money. Such a man will always offer the lady to order food of any value. Observe him from the side. Does he look at the prices when ordering? What is his facial expression? The man will not be generous in the future if on the first date he is dissatisfied with high prices and lack of discounts.
Conversation is an important part of the meeting. In the conversation you will learn more about the person, learn about his inner world. But the partner must not only speak, but also listen. If he constantly translates the topic of the conversation to himself, then the interlocutor from him is useless.
Now people just don't get away with phones. And that is a good test for a possible candidate for husbands. On the first date, nothing should distract you. If a man makes a phone call, he should not pick up the phone, indicating that meeting with you is more important for him. If he goes aside to talk, it is a sign that something is hiding from you, even perhaps a man is married. The ideal option is to turn off your phone during a date. Then nothing will distract you from the acquaintance.