Nothing can replace a feeling, when the eyes of two people meet and all of a sudden chemistry appears.but our world has changed so much and now people from different countries and cultures can meet with the help of internet.
Nothing can replace a feeling, when the eyes of two people meet and all of a sudden chemistry appears.but our world has changed so much and now people from different countries and cultures can meet with the help of internet. The best way to get to know each other is letters and that is how at some point I became a writer and learned everything there was to know about correspondence.
So here is a small guide to successful and not too burdensome correspondence:
Nothing can replace a feeling, when the eyes of two people meet and all of a sudden chemistry appears.but our world has changed so much and now people from different countries and cultures can meet with the help of internet. The best way to get to know each other is letters and that is how at some point I became a writer and learned everything there was to know about correspondence.
So here is a small guide to successful and not too burdensome correspondence:
The letter of introduction:
This is the first letter and maybe it will start your never ending romance. You never know.
I advise that this letter should not be too long because when you don't really know a person.you need to know just a bit at first to spark an interest. So this should be your main goal and the thesis of your letter. To spark an interest in a lady's heart. But please know that it is impossible to spark an interest with a two-page letter because the interest will definitely fade by the end of the first page.:)
A witty, smart, fun and not very long letter will play its perfect role. Try to tell just a little about yourself and add some interesting details. Do not describe your house or how good your everyday life is. Instead tell more about your education or the city you live in. Add some compliments and questions so that it is easier to reply to your letter and just be yourself.
The photos:
You have probably enjoyed looking at the photos of the ladies on our site. They put make up on, got dressed-up and spent their precious time being photographed. So why don't you do the same. Or you can take your digital camera, put on some nice clothes and ask one of your friends to take many many pictures of you. Then choose the one you like most but keep an eye on photos you send her. A real woman will never understand seeing you half naked in the picture! You'll be able to show her your body on later stage :)
The letter with important questions:
I am sure there will be a time in your correspondence when you'll need to ask a lady some questions. But I bed you not to put all your questions in one huge letter. The letter will look more like a questionnaire or a test and it might scare the lady away. Also it is very difficult to answer them even though you really want to tell the person more about yourself. Try to ask one at a time, so the lady has some time to think about the answer and maybe tell you an important story that has happened in her life.
The reply to the letter with important questions:
What to do if you received a letter with lots of questions? Well, first of all.don't answer all of them because then maybe you will have nothing to write about in your next letters. Save some answers for the next time. Then in one of your letters you will say: "You asked me once.." It will sound a bit romantic and the lady will appreciate your attention to her former letters.
The wrong letter:
Sometimes people write letters that may destroy all their previous correspondence. I advise you:
- Don't write about your beautiful five-bedroom, three-bathroom house with jacuzzi and garden sculptures. Or your bank account in the Bank of Geneva. Nobody likes to be bought.
- Don't write about your horrible ex-girlfriend who treated you really bad. That might make her wonder that maybe you're the one who's got problems.
- Don't tell her how nice of a person you are, how serious, how kind and how mature. She will know it later.
- Don't write about sex or very private things. It is better to talk about things like that on a later stage.
- Don't write the names and professions of all of your countless cousins, aunt and uncles. The lady will be really worried that she could not remember all of them.
How to say that you no longer want to correspond:
This is very sad but sometimes you realize that you no longer want to correspond with a person because you do not see any future with her. Some men choose to just stop the correspondence and disappear. But I think that it would be more polite to tell her the truth even though it is difficult. Your letter should be both kind and friendly. Just tell her about your emotions.
How to receive replies quicker:
It is a fact that the shorter your letter is, the sooner you will receive a reply. It works in most cases. Busy women who work or study do not always have time to write big letters. And when they receive a big but sweet and nice letter from you, they want to reply with a big and sweet letter too but it takes a while to write a letter like that for a lady, especially if this letter needs to be translated. I do not say that you need to write two sentences in your letter.just write something interesting or ask a question. Provoke a quick reply.
I wish you all the luck in your search for love and I hope that my advices will be handy for you.
Anna
